When Dad Hurts MomPreface
One: Partner Abuse Through Children's Eyes and Ears
Part I: The Abusive Man and Your Children
Two: The Abusive Mindset and Children
Three: Abusive Men as Parents
Four: Understanding Your Children's Inner World
Five: Protecting your Children's Boundaries
Part II: The Abusive Man and Family Dynamics
Six: A Weekend with the Abbott Family
Seven: Defending Your Role as Mother
Eight: Maintaining Healthy Dynamics in Your Family
Nine: To Leave or Not to Leave
Ten: Dealing with Child Protective Services
Part III: The Abusive Man and Your Children
Post-Separation
Eleven: What Separation and Divorce Mean for Your Children
Twelve: Abusive Men as post-Separation Parents
Thirteen: making your Way in the Family Court System
Part IV: Children Moving Forward
Fourteen: Helping Your Children Heal
Fifteen: Empowering your Children
Sixteen: Stopping the Cycle of Abuse
Resources
Hearing the Personal Accounts of Abused Mothers
Index
Lundy Bancroft has over twenty-five years of experience in the fields of abuse, trauma, and recovery. He has published five books, including the bestseller Why Does He Do That?, Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?, When Dad Hurts Mom, The Batterer as Parent, and Should I Stay of Should I Go?. Lundy has worked with over 1000 abusive men in his counseling groups. He has also served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness, and has presented to 350 audiences across the U.S. and abroad.
“If you have a child who has seen or heard abuse, this book is for
you.”—Patricia Evans, author of Teen Torment: Overcoming Verbal
Abuse at Home and at School
“The perfect, long-awaited guide for mothers who have been
abused…also essential reading for every social worker, custody
evaluator, guardian ad litem, custody attorney, child protection
worker, and judge.”—Joan Zorza, Esq., editor, Domestic Violence
Report
“The system to protect the abused is seriously flawed. Bancroft
helps mothers win the battle using the court’s rules while
empowering them to write new ones.”—The Cleveland Plain Dealer
“A gift to mothers who are in abusive relationships. With
exceptional compassion and deep understanding, Lundy Bancroft helps
abused mothers understand how their children are affected by an
abuser’s attitude and behavior, and empowers them to…help their
children heal…I strongly recommend the book to mothers who are
currently being abused or who have been abused in the past, as well
as to therapists who work with abused women and their
children.”—Beverly Engel, MFT, author of The Emotionally Abused
Woman and Loving Him Without Losing You
“Wonderful—this book covers the most important concerns facing an
abused mother, in a friendly and compassionate tone that helps
women avoid self-blame, while empowering them to promote their
children’s well-being.”—Mo Therese Hannah, Ph.D., psychologist,
Siena College
"If you have a child who has seen or heard abuse, this book is for
you."-Patricia Evans, author of Teen Torment: Overcoming Verbal
Abuse at Home and at School
"The perfect, long-awaited guide for mothers who have been
abused...also essential reading for every social worker, custody
evaluator, guardian ad litem, custody attorney, child protection
worker, and judge."-Joan Zorza, Esq., editor, Domestic Violence
Report
"The system to protect the abused is seriously flawed. Bancroft
helps mothers win the battle using the court's rules while
empowering them to write new ones."-The Cleveland Plain
Dealer
"A gift to mothers who are in abusive relationships. With
exceptional compassion and deep understanding, Lundy Bancroft helps
abused mothers understand how their children are affected by an
abuser's attitude and behavior, and empowers them to...help their
children heal...I strongly recommend the book to mothers who are
currently being abused or who have been abused in the past, as well
as to therapists who work with abused women and their
children."-Beverly Engel, MFT, author of The Emotionally Abused
Woman and Loving Him Without Losing You
"Wonderful-this book covers the most important concerns facing an
abused mother, in a friendly and compassionate tone that helps
women avoid self-blame, while empowering them to promote their
children's well-being."-Mo Therese Hannah, Ph.D., psychologist,
Siena College
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