"The 'life coaches' telling you to love your body? Forget 'em. Most women have spent years analyzing their flabby bellies, so unconditional self-love is unlikely. Enter Trinny Woodall and Susannah Constantine, two tough-loving Brits claiming it's not what you've got, it's how you hide it. Their TV show, "What Not to Wear, " is cruel (fashion victims are stalked for months on hidden video), but the duo's harsh 'tips' are always spot on."