Sara Elinoff Acker has been an activist in the battered women's movement since 1985. She worked in shelter programs in Northern Vermont, USA and Western Massachusetts, USA and in 1992 started the partner contact programme at Men Overcoming Violence (MOVE) in Amherst. Acker became a certified batterer intervention group leader in 1996 and ran groups for abusive men for over ten years. She now works as a psychotherapist in private practice.
"In Unclenching Our Fists, Sara Elinoff Acker recounts her
remarkable journey from domestic violence victim advocate to
batterer intervention counselor as a way to introduce readers to
one of the key lessons her experience taught her: abusive men
can--and do--change their behavior if they have the courage, and
will, to do so. The stories she shares provide powerful evidence of
this. Unlike so much else written about men behaving badly, this
book is inspiring--and hopeful. It should be widely read."
--Jackson Katz, author of The Macho Paradox and creator of the documentary film Tough Guise
"Unclenching Our Fists offers rare insight into hearts and minds of men who choose non-violence. Now more than ever, we need these stories and wisdom to point us in the direction of solutions. I'm inspired by the courage of the women who spoke up, the men who listened, and the author for bringing these stories to our attention."
--Lonna Davis, Director, Children and Youth Program, Futures Without Violence