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Sickened

By Julie Gregory

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Format: Paperback, 244 pages
Other Information: Illustrated
Published In: USA, 01 September 2004
A young girl is perched on the cold chrome of yet another doctor's examining table, missing yet another day of school. Just twelve, she's tall, skinny, and weak. It's four o'clock, and she hasn't been allowed to eat anything all day. Her mother, on the other hand, seems curiously excited. She's about to suggest open-heart surgery on her child to "get to the bottom of this." She checks her teeth for lipstick and, as the doctor enters, shoots the girl a warning glance. This child will not ruin her plans.
Sickened
From early childhood, Julie Gregory was continually X-rayed, medicated, and operated on--in the vain pursuit of an illness that was created in her mother's mind. Munchausen by proxy (MBP) is the world's most hidden and dangerous form of child abuse, in which the caretaker--almost always the mother--invents or induces symptoms in her child because she craves the attention of medical professionals. Many MBP children die, but Julie Gregory not only survived, she escaped the powerful orbit of her mother's madness and rebuilt her identity as a vibrant, healthy young woman.
Sickened is a remarkable memoir that speaks in an original and distinctive Midwestern voice, rising to indelible scenes in prose of scathing beauty and fierce humor. Punctuated with Julie's actual medical records, it re-creates the bizarre cocoon of her family's isolated double-wide trailer, their wild shopping sprees and gun-waving confrontations, the astonishing naivete of medical professionals and social workers. It also exposes the twisted bonds of terror and love that roped Julie's family together--including the love that made a child willing to sacrifice herself to win her mother's happiness.
The realization that the sickness lay in her mother, not in herself, would not come to Julie until adulthood. But when it did, it would strike like lightning. Through her painful metamorphosis, she discovered the courage to save her own life--and, ultimately, the life of the girl her mother had found to replace her. Sickened takes us to new places in the human heart and spirit. It is an unforgettable story, unforgettably told.

"From the Hardcover edition.

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About the Author

JULIE GREGORY grew up in southern Ohio. She is now an expert writer and spokesperson on Munchausen by proxy and an advocate in MBP cases. A graduate student in psychiatry at Sheffield University, England, she currently lives in the United States. From the Hardcover edition.

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"A painful but wonderfully written memoir that should create greater awareness of a bizarre disorder... Keen self-awareness, a sharp eye for details, and an original, poetic voice." --Kirkus Reviews "This story of unfathomable child abuse is told with remarkable wit, compassion, and courage. It's a work of beauty from a beast of a childhood." --Augusten Burroughs, author of Running with Scissors and Dry"Like some Diane Arbus photograph come to life, Julie Gregory's Sickened offers us a portrait of quintessential American Disturbos in all their tender, heinous can't-look-and-can't-look-away glory. A miraculous book by a woman whose very survival is itself a miracle." --Jerry Stahl, author of Permanent Midnight "Set in a southern-culture-on-the-skids world reminiscent of J.T. Leroy, Sickened is written with a lyrical directness that is both riveting and horrific. Julie Gregory reminds us that those who find the courage to slay the dragons of their past and stop the cycle of abuse are the true heroes of the world." --Ann Magnuson, actress, singer, writer "A stunning account by a courageous woman who journeyed from the depths of hell to reclaim her own power and worth. Julie Gregory casts an extraordinary beacon of healing. You will be hearing a lot about this one." --Alan Cohen, author of I Had It All the Time"A born storyteller with perfect pitch, Julie Gregory guides the reader through this surreal form of cruelty, in which the ultimate weapon is the scalpel, with originality, gusto and heart-stopping courage."--Sylvia Fraser, author of My Father's House: A Memoir of Incest and of Healing "Gripping self-disclosure by a remarkable young woman . . . Sickened will surely and finally impact the proper diagnosis and treatment of children caught in the terror of MBP."--Chris Monaco, Ph.D., Director, Childhelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline "This searing and beautiful memoir represents a genuine triumph of the human spirit."--Marc D. Feldman, M.D. From the Hardcover edition. A painful but wonderfully written memoir that should create greater awareness of a bizarre disorder Keen self-awareness, a sharp eye for details, and an original, poetic voice. --"Kirkus Reviews" This story of unfathomable child abuse is told with remarkable wit, compassion, and courage. It s a work of beauty from a beast of a childhood. --Augusten Burroughs, author of "Running with" "Scissors" and "Dry" Like some Diane Arbus photograph come to life, Julie Gregory's "Sickened" offers us a portrait of quintessential American Disturbos in all their tender, heinous can't-look-and-can't-look-away glory. A miraculous book by a woman whose very survival is itself a miracle. --Jerry Stahl, author of "Permanent Midnight " Set in a southern-culture-on-the-skids world reminiscent of J.T. Leroy, "Sickened" is written with a lyrical directness that is both riveting and horrific. Julie Gregory reminds us that those who find the courage to slay the dragons of their past and stop the cycle of abuse are the true heroes of the world. --Ann Magnuson, actress, singer, writer "A stunning account by a courageouswoman who journeyed from the depths of hell to reclaim her own power and worth. Julie Gregory casts an extraordinary beacon of healing. You will be hearing a lot about this one. --Alan Cohen, author of "I Had It All the Time""A born storyteller with perfect pitch, Julie Gregory guides the reader through this surreal form of cruelty, in which the ultimate weapon is the scalpel, with originality, gusto and heart-stopping courage."--Sylvia Fraser, author of "My Father's House: A Memoir of Incest and of Healing" "Gripping self-disclosure by a remarkable young woman . . . "Sickened" will surely and "finally" impact the proper diagnosis and treatment of children caught in the terror of MBP."--Chris Monaco, Ph.D., Director, Childhelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline This searing and beautiful memoir represents a genuine triumph of the human spirit. --Marc D. Feldman, M.D. "From the Hardcover edition."" " A painful but wonderfully written memoir that should create greater awareness of a bizarre disorder... Keen self-awareness, a sharp eye for details, and an original, poetic voice." --"Kirkus Reviews" " This story of unfathomable child abuse is told with remarkable wit, compassion, and courage. It' s a work of beauty from a beast of a childhood." --Augusten Burroughs, author of "Running with" "Scissors" and "Dry"" Like some Diane Arbus photograph come to life, Julie Gregory's "Sickened" offers us a portrait of quintessential American Disturbos in all their tender, heinous can't-look-and-can't-look-away glory. A miraculous book by a woman whose very survival is itself a miracle." --Jerry Stahl, author of "Permanent Midnight "" Set in a southern-culture-on-the-skids world reminiscent of J.T. Leroy, "Sickened" is written with a lyrical directness that is both riveting and horrific. Julie Gregory reminds us that those who find the courage to slay the dragons of their past and stop the cycle of abuse are the true heroes of the world." --Ann Magnuson, actress, singer, writer " A stunning account by a courageous woman who journeyed from the depths of hell to reclaim her own power and worth. Julie Gregory casts an extraordinary beacon of healing. You will be hearing a lot about this one." --Alan Cohen, author of "I Had It All the Time"" A born storyteller with perfect pitch, Julie Gregory guides the reader through this surreal form of cruelty, in which the ultimate weapon is the scalpel, with originality, gusto and heart-stopping courage." --SylviaFraser, author of "My Father's House: A Memoir of Incest and of Healing" " Gripping self-disclosure by a remarkable young woman . . . "Sickened" will surely and "finally" impact the proper diagnosis and treatment of children caught in the terror of MBP." --Chris Monaco, Ph.D., Director, Childhelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline " This searing and beautiful memoir represents a genuine triumph of the human spirit." --Marc D. Feldman, M.D. "From the Hardcover edition."

EAN: 9780553381979
ISBN: 0553381970
Publisher: Bantam Books
Dimensions: 21.23 x 13.72 x 1.42 centimetres (0.23 kg)
Age Range: 10-14 years
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A fascinating and disturbing read into the pathology of Munchausen's Syndrome by Proxy, the first biography of it's kind. The author conveys her experiences at the hands of her mother with feeling and without censure. It is almost unreal to believe this has happened, and does happen - such as her mother brainwashing her into believing she was sick, inventing symptoms, controlling her diet to reflect ill-health etc but plenty of factual documentation is included for indisputable authenticity. It is a very personal sharing of a dysfunctional family and bizarre upbringing.
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A trully terrable story of a mother who needs attention and uses her daughter to get it.This poor girl has to act sick tell lies and if not done to the mothers standards gets scolded and abused for not doing it right always being told that the doctors need to know or they cant fix it.Trully disturbing that parents can be like this towards there own children.

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