About the Author

Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books, including She Comes First, which has been translated into more than a dozen languages. He contributes regularly to CNN on topics related to sex and relationships and is the co-founder of the Sex Therapy Program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of the oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities in New York City.

Reviews

"Men, while still lame, can no longer hide behind the old excuse of ignorance when it comes to pleasuring a woman--the facts are all here in this complete guide." - Dr. Drew Pinsky, co-host of Loveline
"An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!" - Playgirl
"Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they're not satisfied." - Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City
"Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon." - Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine
"Here comes a book that puts men in their places - smack dab in between women's legs!" - Cake
"In a town where everyone wants go down in history remembered for something, Ian Kerner wants to go down as the champion of going down." - New York magazine
"Is it too late to nominate Kerner for some sort of Nobel prize?" - Blogcritics.com
"The title says it all. This is always my first recommendation for any guy who has found female sexuality a mystery, because it gives very specific, useful tips for the female anatomy. Trust me, reading this book will definitely change how you view sex and brush you up on your cliteracy." - Emily Morse, Sex with Emily podcast
"Perhaps it's time we paid more than lip service to the idea of true sexual liberation, and perhaps She Comes First is just the sort of talking point we need to get us started. " - The Guardian
"This book has an incredible amount of detailed, useful information about pleasuring women. I kind of knew I was doing everything wrong, but now I know why. Thanks Ian!" - Time magazine
"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." - AskMen.com
"This book has an incredible amount of detailed, useful information about pleasuring women. I kind of knew I was doing everything wrong, but now I know why. Thanks Ian!" - Joel Stein
"The sex manual getting the most attention these days is SHE COMES FIRST: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner... With a cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, he encourages men through an act that many find mystifying." - New York Times Sunday Book Review
"The man who made oral sex into an art form." - Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D, Professor of Sociology, University of Washington and author of Prime: Adventures and Advice on Sex, Love and the Sensual Years
"If you're at all confused about how to use your tongue or fingers to make a woman come, consider reading the unparalleled work of genius She Comes First by Ian Kerner. The advice is extremely practical and hands on--he will literally walk you through every step of the way, with things like the Jackson Pollock lick and the Elvis Presley snarl." - GQ
"Move over, Casanova. Step aside, Don Juan. Out of the way Mr. Big. Meet Ian Kerner, the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman." - New York Post
"With a cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, [Ian Kerner] encourages men through an act that many find mystifying." - New York Times

"Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they're not satisfied." -- Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City"Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon." -- Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine"Here comes a book that puts men in their places - smack dab in between women's legs!" -- Cake"An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!" -- Playgirl