Ed Shaw is the pastor of Emmanuel City Centre in Bristol, England, and part of the editorial team at www.livingout.org. He loves his family and friends, church and city, gin and tonic, music and books.
Vaughan Roberts is rector of St. Ebbe's Church in Oxford, England, and author of God's Big Picture and Life's Big Questions. He is also a popular speaker at Spring Harvest and a founding member of "9:38" which encourages people to consider full-time gospel ministry.
"Same-Sex Attraction and the Church is a must-read for all
Christians. Pastor Shaw lives out what it means to apply faith to
the facts of unwanted, unchosen and sometimes unshakable same-sex
attraction. This powerful book meets readers at the heart level,
manifesting a positive understanding of the sacrifices of the
Christian life. And because it is so disarmingly positive about the
Christian art of dying to self, it sings a clarion call shedding
new light on this sacred truth: the real gospel imparts a
will-influencing, heart-changing light into the souls of men and
women and the community that we create together. . . . I love this
book."
*Rosaria Butterfield, author of The Secret Thoughts of An Unlikely
Convert*
"Our culture places sex at the heart of identity and fulfillment.
But Ed Shaw has discovered in the God of the gospel a pleasure that
is greater and an identity that is richer than anything we can
create for ourselves. Over against the false choice of embracing
homosexuality or ignoring it, he gives us the category of
'same-sex-attracted-but-in-Christ.' In doing so, he shows the power
of the gospel to direct us all away from both indulging our sins
and denying the reality of our temptations. The fidelity to truth
and loving wisdom in this book is exactly what we all need right
now."
*Michael Horton, professor of theology, Westminster Seminary
California*
"As a Christian who also knows same-sex desire firsthand, I would
put a few things differently than how Ed Shaw does here. But that
doesn't stop me from applauding this biblically thorough,
evangelistically zealous, humbly self-disclosing and pastorally
compassionate defense of traditional Christian sexual ethics. Ed
Shaw's life and teaching are an inspiring variation on what the
church throughout history has celebrated as consecrated, holy
virginity. May his tribe increase!"
*Wesley Hill, assistant professor of biblical studies, Trinity
School for Ministry, Ambridge, Pennsylvania, and author of Washed
and Waiting*
"The big idea of Ed Shaw's book is simple: the church must make the
biblical commands on sexuality seem plausible again. He calls all
of us to repentance and wisely shows us a better way to battle sin,
to understand sufferers and to proclaim truth with grace. Even
those who don't agree with every jot and tittle will find something
to be challenged and encouraged by on nearly every page. I highly
recommend this clear, courageous and compassionate book."
*Justin Taylor, coauthor, The Final Days of Jesus, blogger,
"Between Two Worlds"*
"Read this book to learn about the faith and life of a devout
celibate man. Readers will surely vary in their response to Shaw's
theological views, but all will deepen their understanding and
respect for celibacy as a spiritual practice and will come away
challenged to build stronger supports for all people, married and
single, in their local churches."
*Jenell Paris, professor of anthropology, Messiah College, author
of The End of Sexual Identity*
"Ed Shaw identifies the primary obstacle to a Christian sexual
ethic in today's culture. It is not that the culture weighs
Christian arguments and finds them wanting, but rather that the
culture cannot imagine any alternative to sexual autonomy. In this
book, Shaw pastorally and wisely shows how to apply a Christian
vision of marriage and sexuality to those with attraction to the
same sex. The book is a welcome vehicle for discipleship for the
whole church to help us to bear one another's burdens."
*Russell D. Moore, president, Ethics Religious Liberty
Commission*
"Ed Shaw has written winsomely and helpfully about what I consider
to be the biggest discipleship issue facing the church: sexuality
and identity in Christ. This is a book for the entire body of
Christ, not just those who are same-sex attracted. Shaw accurately
diagnoses nine false beliefs prevalent in our churches that have
undermined a biblical view of sexuality and made it seem
implausible. Yet the book left me hopeful and optimistic that the
church can and must replace false beliefs with life-giving truth
and love."
*Betsy Childs Howard, The Gospel Coalition, "TGC Editors' Picks:
Top Books of 2015," December 2015*
"As a pastor, a counselor, and a church member I can think of no
other book that is more important for the church to read today! It
is sensitive, direct, practically-oriented, fresh, and
thought-provoking."
*Dave Dunham, Pastor Dave Online, July 24, 2015*
"In Same-Sex Attraction and the Church: The Surprising Plausibility
of the Celibate Life (IVP, 2015) British pastor Ed Shaw says giving
"Just Say No" advice to those with same-sex attraction (which Shaw
himself has) is insufficient. He rightly says evangelicals must
show that the celibate life is plausible and reasonable and that
those with SSA can attain satisfaction abiding within God's rules
instead of by breaking them, or else young Christians especially
will fall for emotional appeals from gay advocates. . . . He offers
ways of gaining true intimacy apart from sex, and true godliness by
overcoming suffering rather than avoiding it."
*Marvin Olasky, WORLD, March 19, 2016*
"Ed Shaw shares his story and perspective in this book with deep
sincerity, conviction and honesty. He makes a profound contribution
to the conversation about same-sex attraction. I am so glad I read
this book and I wholeheartedly recommend it."
*Amy Orr-Ewing, Director of Programmes for the Oxford Centre for
Christian Apologetics (OCCA) and UK Director for RZIM Zacharias
Trust*
"Shaw unpacks nine missteps the church needs to correct to convey
the plausibility of the faithful and celibate lifestyle. This is
the best book available on helping the church minister more
intentionally to those among us who struggle with same-sex
attraction."
*David Dunham, Leadership Journal, Winter 2016*
"This book is an important one because of two reasons: a) (Ed) is a
man who experiences same-sex attraction, though refraining from
same-sex relationships. Thus, I believe he has much to offer in the
conversation. b) In identifying nine missteps that surround this
important modern-day discussion, Shaw lays out one very important
misstep on both sides: believing our sexuality determines our
identity. I agree wholeheartedly!"
*Scott Lencke, The Prodigal Thought, December 29, 2015*
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