Debra D. Castaldo, Ph.D., has been a couples and family therapist for more than twenty- five years, and is the author of two previous books: Divorced without children: Solution focused therapy with women at midlife, and Gifts of love: Solutions for all seasons. She has been featured as a relationship expert on CNN, FOX Good Day New York, NBC The 10 Show, The Bill Cunningham Show, The WOW Show, and on various radio programs including Sirius XM. She has also been featured in Ladies Home Journal, Redbook, Woman%u2019s Day, More, Shape, and Girl%u2019s Life magazines. She has been a faculty member at Columbia, Rutgers, Barry, and New York Universities, and has taught numerous relationship workshops and courses in corporate and personal growth settings. She is the founder and director of The Center for Couples and Family Solutions in the New York City area, where she maintains a private practice in couples and family therapy.