About the Author

Elizabeth Earnshaw, LMFT, CGT, is the founder of A Better Life Therapy and influential Instagram therapist behind @lizlistens. She holds a master's degree in marriage and family therapy, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, and is a certified Gottman Method couples therapist. Elizabeth also trains and supervises new therapists seeking their licenses in the counseling field. Learn more at abetterlifetherapy.com.

Reviews

"This book is an essential guide for couples who desire to build vital relationship skills, particularly during challenging moments. The tools for growth and learning are written in a warm and no-nonsense manner. I Want This to Work can be used as a stand-alone resource or in tandem with therapy. The book will help couples gain a unique understanding of how to talk about and work through hard things." --Nedra Tawwab, LCSW, therapist and New York Times bestselling author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace "I Want This to Work does a beautiful job of exploring the many issues the modern-day couple faces, while normalizing the reader's experience by offering examples of couples working through similar challenges. A necessary read for anyone wanting to improve the quality of their relationships." --Vienna Pharaon, LMFT, owner of Mindful Marriage & Family Therapy, founder of @mindfulmft, and relationship expert at Motherly "Elizabeth's work is an invaluable source of support and wisdom for any and all humans looking to explore themselves in their relationships." --Lisa Olivera, LMFT, therapist, author of Already Enough, and founder of @_lisaolivera "I love everything about this book. Elizabeth infused every chapter with a kind of empathy that allowed me as the reader to really look at and want to work on changing my relationally disconnecting behaviors." --Silvy Khoucasian, relationship coach and writer "Drawing on her extensive experience as a couples therapist, Elizabeth Earnshaw shares her knowledge of the science that underlies successful relationships and provides thoughtful insights for couples as well as helpful suggestions for conversations and changes. I believe this book offers real help to those couples who 'want this to work.'" --Don Cole, DMin, clinical director of The Gottman Institute "Absolutely fantastic! This book is a must read for anyone who is currently in a relationship. It doesn't matter if you just started a relationship or have been married for 40 years, the information is invaluable!" --Sara Kuburic, existential therapist, writer, and founder of @millennial.therapist