Stendhal examines the "shadow" in lesbian relationships that descends when women bond so completely that the intimacy becomes a merging, obliterating the space between individuals where desire lies. Lesbian bed death, the topic of so many comediennes, is examined and reined in, no longer an inevitable result of a solid relationship. "True Secrets of Lesbian Desire" casts an eye on the myths that burden us all.

Reviews

"Renate Stendhal's unique words of wisdom are wonderful, and have an important message for everyone."-Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon, co-authors of "Lesbian/Woman""Tracking all these mutual quests for honest relationships, Stendhal's small and beautiful volume almost made me wish to be in one myself. I'll keep it handy, should the occasion arise."-Alix Dobkin, singer/songwriter"What a compassionate and useful little book, so full of heart and good sense. Renate Stendhal brings her work deep understanding about intimacy that will benefit any couple ready to take the next step in love and passion."-Carol Queen, Ph.D., author of" Exhibitionism for the Sky"