Every animal lover has felt it: the numbing pain and dreadful sense of loss when a beloved animal dies. Veteran writers and long-time animal lovers Allen and Linda Anderson take on the task of walking readers through their pain and sorrow. They also offer comfort and guidance for planning an appropriate memory ceremony, dealing with grief, remembering and honouring key moments in the animal's life and getting past the depression. The book includes exercises and affirmations that can be used again and again through the various stages of grief.Topics such as helping children through their grief, dealing with religious beliefs, and finding comfort through groups and with professionals are covered. The book also provides ceremonies based on different spiritual traditions that can be read at a service, including "I Remember You Memorial Service" (non-religious) and "All God's Creatures Memorial Service" (for Judeo-Christian believers). Sections address runaway pets as well as the loss due to other circumstances, such as someone no longer able to care for a beloved animal. The book explores after-death experiences of the departed companion animal, and relates many beautiful stories that reinforce the love and sense of comfort that comes from acknowledging the place animals hold in our lives.

Reviews

"Offers a wide range of healing activities, compassionate reflection, and practical help for honoring and memorializing the life of your pet."
-- Dr. Marty Becker, resident veterinarian on ABC's "Good Morning America"

"Allen and Linda Anderson's book gives us permission to acknowledge the intense bond we have with our animal companions and the deep loss we can experience after their deaths. It provides helpful stories, exercises, and memorial services respecting a variety of beliefs. Infused with kindness, their work offers us help, hope, and a rainbow during the storm. I have learned from it and will celebrate and share it."
-- The Reverend Mary Piper, Episcopal priest and chaplain, cofounder of the pet loss support program at Heart of the Valley Humane Society in Bozeman, Montana

"This masterful and beautiful book is rich with wisdom, inspiration, and sound advice....With sensitivity and compassion as well as practical information, the Andersons gently and deftly guide us through the complex labyrinth of emotions associated with grief. I highly recommend this thoughtful, illuminating, and comforting book."
-- Diane Pomerance, PhD, creator and director of the Pet Grief Counseling Program, SPCA of Texas, and author of "When Your Pet Dies"