A gripping and revealing first-hand account of one family's experience in the Exclusive Brethren community in New Zealand. Ngaire Thomas grew up, married and raised her children within the Exclusive Brethren church in the Palmerston North area. In plain, non-judgemental style, Ngaire describes life inside this community with its strict rules. She says: 'By the time I was nine, I had developed an independent spirit ...[which] usually meant that a person had begun to think for themselves rather than obeying the M.O.G. [Man of God] - an undesirable trait that needed to be dealt with.' BEHIND CLOSED DOORS tells of the struggles Ngaire and her family went through in order to remain within this close but challenging community. She and her husband Denis, a very devout man, had a strong and committed marriage, raised five children and attempted to live a good life within the church. However they were eventually excommunicated and went to live 'on the outside'. Ngaire describes the trauma of adjusting to life on the outside and its devastating effects on her children. This is a fascinating window into a world that few of us will ever know - told by an intelligent and compassionate woman.
About the Author
Ngaire Thomas lives in Palmerston North. This is her first book.
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Reviews
– Customer review on 31/01/2009
I found this very readable, giving an insight into the way of life of the Exclusive Brethren church. For me, it posed as many questions as it answered, i.e. is this book a true indication of the church as it is today?
This was an amazing true life story, I found it highly emotional at times. While the information is slightly out of date it gave me a greater understanding of the Exclusives I went to school with in the 1990s.
This is a chilling account of the realities of hard christian fundamentalism, legalism and pharisaism in New Zealand. Ngaire Thomas, through it all, is astonishingly tolerant of the male bigots who tried to run her life.
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