This is an insightful new book that helps readers to determine if their relationship has reached the breaking point. It is filled with poignant case studies, cutting-edge research and a 100-question self-assessment. It is from a psychoanalyst who specializes in troubled relationships and an internationally known consultant on conflict management. For the millions caught in unhappy marriages the question that haunts is: 'Should I divorce?'. Now, in their insightful new book, a husband-and-wife team of marriage experts help readers find the answer by taking them through ten steps to determine if their relationship has reached the breaking point. While Drs. Birnbach and Hyman do not advocate divorce, they point out that the most desirable situation - a happy long-term marriage - may simply not be possible in some cases. Filled with poignant case studies, cutting-edge research and a 100-question self-assessment to determine if it's 'time to go', this unique guide dispels the myths about divorce and enables readers to recognize if there is still hope or if they are better off apart.

About the Author

Dr. Lawrence Birnbach is a psychoanalyst who specialises in working with individuals and couples in troubled relationships. Dr. Beverly Hyman is an internationally known business and organisational consultant specialising in conflict management. She is a consultant to several United Nations agencies and has been a featured speaker at national and international conferences, including: The United Nations Conference to End the Decade for Women and many others.

Reviews

Psychoanalyst Birnbach and organizational consultant Hyman team up to present a guide to gauging how serious problems are in a marriage, what can be done to resolve them, or whether it's time to separate and divorce. Each chapter covers a relevant topic and closes with self-assessment questions. The authors see divorce as a last resort but provide a concrete plan for how to prepare and carry it out so it's as painless as possible. Excellent support for those who feel trapped in an unhappy marriage. --"Library Journal
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