With more and more marriages ending in divorce and the growing trend in remarriage, we are seeing a fundamental shift in the pattern of family life. Much has been written about the ingredients of a good relationship, but now we need to build a picture that identifies the ingredients of a good divorce. Parents involved in these new family patterns have struggled to find ways of relating that work for all members. Their experiences can help guide decision-making for parents who put a high priority on helping their children through these confusing and frightening times. It's a big step, however, from knowing the ingredients of a good divorce to actually achieving it. This guide not only tells you what makes a good divorce, but also identifies ways in which this can be achieved.

Table of Contents

Why parenting matters; a different way of separating; the problem of practice; coming to terms with separation; putting the children first?; new partners, new problems; seeking advice.